Thursday, April 29, 2004

What being single means..


Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.

Single gives you space to grow. Sometimes, it's harder to grow when you are too close to someone. Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches and become strong as they mature.

Single means freedom. You are free to spend a week's vacation on the beach, to take computer courses, to work late on an interesting project, to spend the day in bed with a good book or simply be with a person who has read one.

Single means learning not to need a man/woman to make your life meaningful but learning to live with a man/woman because you want to be with him/her.

Single is realizing that being married is not necessarily better, it is merely different.

Single means that there could be something wonderful around the corner and you can take advantage of it.

Single means you are free to love again. There are times when we afraid of telling the person whom we love or like, what we feel deep inside because we might just lose them. That's a big risk.. I know.. But hey.. everything is. The way I see it is, why keep omething inside and then up regretting it in the near future? Everything is a big risk. So whatever you decide to do with your feelings whether you tell it to that person or not.. you have to be ready with the consequences that come after it and accept it.

Whatever decisions that you've made in your life is part of your growing.
Whatever decisions that you have to make will influence or affect your future.

So think hard before deciding on certain things.. and pray to God and God will show you the way. It's all yours!


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